Anthu ambiri amakonda zokongoletsera komanso mphete zosiyana siyana, ndipo amatha kukhala amatsenga amphamvu omwe angathe kukopa luso, chuma ndi chikondi. Kuwerenga ziwembu pazovalazo ndibwino pa mwezi ukukula, kuchita miyambo payekha ndikusauza aliyense za kukopa zamatsenga.
Lembani mphete ya mwayi
Kwa mwambowu, amaloledwa kugwiritsa ntchito zokongoletsera osati kwenikweni zopangidwa ndi zitsulo zamtengo wapatali. Chikhalidwe chachikulu - mphete iyenera kukhala, ndipo zingakhale zomveka kuvala tsiku lililonse. Msonkhano uyenera kuyambika dzuŵa litangotha, koma pamsewu sayenera kutayidwa. Chovalachi chimapachikidwa pa ulusi wofiira, kotero kuti pendulum potsiriza imatha. Sungani zodzikongoletsera pa ulusi ndi kunena mawu awa:
"Khalani mphete, wokondwa ndi wopambana.
Ine ndidzatsiriza chuma mu bwalo, osachoka kwa ine, sichidzatha.
Nthaŵi zonse ndili ndi mwayi, kwa zaka mazana ambiri ndikugwira dzanja. "
Chovalacho chidzabweretsa mwayi mu gawo lirilonse la moyo, monga ntchito kapena moyo waumwini. Ndi bwino kuvala mphete pakati pa chala chapakati, chomwe chidzakupangitsani kuti muzidzidalira nokha.
Lembani pamphepete mwa chikondi
Msonkhano wapadera uyenera kusankhidwa mukakhala kuti chiyanjano ndi wokondedwa chikuchepa. Pofuna kupewa kulekanitsa, kubwereranso mgwirizano ndi chimwemwe, ndikofunikira kuchita mwambo, umene mudzalandira mpango watsopano. Pitani ku tchalitchi kukawaza madzi oyera ndikugulira mphete ya siliva yomwe imati "Sungani ndi kusunga." Kuwonjezera apo, pa mwambowu, mufunikira makandulo asanu ndi awiri ofiira ofiira. Pambuyo pakati pausiku ikani makandulo pa tebulo ndikuwatseni. Mpukutu umadutsamo mphete ndipo umati chigamulochi ndi mphete yatsopano:
"Ine ndipita, mtumiki wa Mulungu (dzina lanu), ine ndipita kumunda woyera, Kudzera pakhomo, kudutsa pa chipata, ine ndifunafuna chisangalalo changa. Mphete pa mphete, mphete pamphepete, Thandizani mphete, mtumiki wa Mulungu (dzina lake). Ostepeniti, mwa chikondi ndi ine. Mawu-kutseka. Amen. Amen. Amen. "
Pambuyo pake, pitani kukagona, mutatha kuwerenga pemphero "Atate Wathu" kasanu ndi kamodzi pabedi. M'mawa ndifunika kuima ndi phazi lanu lamanja. Mpangoyo umayenera kuperekedwa kwa mwamuna kuti amutenge ndi iye, ndi kuyika mpheteyo kumanja kwake pamzere. Ndikofunika kuvala zodzikongoletsera masabata seveni mzere.