Atapatukana, amai ambiri sangathe kuiwala wokondedwayo ndi njira iliyonse yomwe akufuna kuti abwerere. Pachifukwa ichi, kuombeza kubwerera kwa wokondedwa kumatchuka ndipo kumafunidwa pa nthawi zoterozo. Zikhalidwe zosiyanasiyana zidzakuthandizani kupeza chifukwa chimene wokondedwa wapita ndipo ngati pali mwayi wobwezeretsa chiyanjano choyambirira.
Kupatulidwa ndi kubweranso kwa wokondedwa
Pachifukwa ichi, mufunika kutenga khadi la makadi a tarot ndi kusankha Oldest Arcana kwa iwo. Dzimasulireni nokha ku malingaliro onse, ganizirani za wokondedwa wanu ndi kufunsa funso limene limakufunirani. Makhadi osankhidwa ayenera kusakanizidwa, kutenga 8 ndi kuwafalitsa iwo muzeng'onoting'ono, kuyambira pamwamba.
Tanthauzo la kulingalira kwa kubwerera kwa ubale:
- 1 - chifukwa chake mudasweka;
- 2 - mumamva bwanji ndi munthu wosankhidwayo;
- 3 - wokondedwa amamva chiyani kwa inu;
- 4 - kodi mukukonzekera zotani kwa munthu amene mukumuganizira;
- 5 - nchiyani chomwe chimakulepheretsani kukhala pamodzi kachiwiri;
- 6 - N'chiyani chingakuthandizeni kubwezeretsa wokondedwa wanu;
- 7 - kodi pali tsogolo lililonse la ubale wanu;
- 8 - chiyembekezereni chiyanjano chanu mtsogolomu.
Makhalidwe a makadi a tarot angapezeke m'nkhaniyi.
Kupatulidwa ndi kubweranso kwa wokondedwa
Pachifukwa ichi, tengani paketi ya 36 makadi ndikusakaniza bwino. Ganizirani za wokondedwa wanu ndipo mufunse funso. Tengani khadi lapamwamba ndikuyiyika pa tebulo, kenaka phatikizani phukusi. Bweretsani kusokoneza kasanu ndi kamodzi. Chotsatira chake, muyenera kukhala ndi makadi 6 pa tebulo, mtengo wake ndi uwu:
- 1 - maganizo a wokondedwa;
- 2 - kumverera kwa wosankhidwa;
- 3 - posachedwa;
- 4 - zokhumba za munthu;
- 5 - maloto ndi zolinga za wokondedwa;
- 6 - zomwe zikuchitika panthawiyi ndi osankhidwawo.
Kubwezeretsedwa ndi kubwerera kwa mwamuna
Pachifukwa ichi, muyenera kutenga khadi la makadi a tarot , sakanizani bwino ndikuyika makhadi 15.
Tanthauzo la kuwombeza:
- 1 - zochitika zomwe zimachitika m'moyo;
- 2 - chifukwa cha kupasuka;
- 3 - ngati wokondedwa ali ndi wina;
- 4 - ngati mutalandira yankho lovomerezeka ku funso lapitalo, ndiye khadi ili lidzakambilana kwambiri;
- 5 - momwe munthu amachitira, ngati mumamupeza m'malo mwake;
- 6 - momwe munthu amachitira, ngati akale amabwerera kwa iwe;
- 7 - chomaliza chimene wokondedwa anachita pambuyo pa nthawi yopuma;
- 8 - zochitika za wokondedwa pazogawikana;
- 9 - munthu angapeze chiyani ngati mutayambitsanso ubwenzi wanu;
- 10 - N'chiyani chomwe chingakhale choipa kwa mnzanu atangoyambiranso ubwenzi?
- 11 - ndi ubwino wotani pakati pa ubale;
- 12 - Cholakwika n'chiyani kwa inu kubweretsa kupuma;
- 13 - ndi ubwino wanji umene udzachitike mutagwirizanitsa awiriwa;
- 14 - Zidzakhala zotani pambuyo pa kubwezeretsa maubwenzi;
- 15 - ngati n'zotheka kubwezera mwamunayo mothandizidwa ndi matsenga.
Kutanthauzira kwa mamapu achikale kungakhoze kuwonedwera apa.