Maloto onena za kubereka angakhoze kuwonedwa ndi anthu onse, mosasamala za kugonana ndi msinkhu. Kawirikawiri izi ndizomwe zili bwino. Pofuna kutanthauzira maloto, m'pofunika kuyesa kukumbukira zofunikira zonse za chiwembu ndi zovuta kuti muwonjezere chithunzi chonse. Ndikofunika kuti tifanizire zolembazo ndi zochitika zomwe zimachitika m'moyo wamba.
Kodi udindo wobadwa ndi wotani?
Maloto oterowo nthawi zambiri amalonjeza kusintha kwadongosolo m'moyo, mwinamwake ndi nthawi yochotsa zinthu zosafunikira. Ngati iwo anali opweteka, kuti akwaniritse cholinga ichi adzayenera kuyesetsa mwakhama. Maloto omwe munthu amafa panthawi yobereka amasonyeza kuti simungathe kukhazikitsa ubale ndi achibale. Kuwona kubadwa kwa mapasa kumatanthauza kuti mgwirizano udzafika m'moyo, ndipo wina akhoza kuyembekezera kukwaniritsidwa kwa chikhumbo chofunika kwambiri. Komabe zingakhale chizindikiro cha kukhalapo kovuta kusankha posachedwa. Kubadwa msinkhu ndi chizindikiro cha mwayi wosayembekezereka kapena phindu, zomwe zidzakhala popanda mavuto ambiri. Pali kutanthauzira kwina, malingana ndi maloto oterewa akulonjeza kutaya. Ngati kubadwa kunapita bwino - ichi ndi chisonyezero cha zotsatira za tsogolo.
Kodi maloto a kubadwa kwa wina ndi otani?
Kuti muone momwe mkazi wina amaberekera, ndiye, pambali ya bwenzi lapamtima amafunika kuthandizidwa ndi kuthandizidwa. Komabe zingakhale chizindikiro cha kukhala ndi maganizo ovutika maganizo. Kubeleka ndi chizindikiro chabwino chomwe chimasonyeza kuyambira kwa "white band" mu moyo. Kungakhalenso chizindikiro chokhala ndi mavuto pakati panu. Maloto kutanthauzira, chimene kubadwa kwa msungwana akulota, kutanthauzira, ngati vuto la vuto. Pasanapite nthawi mukhoza kumverera kuti muli ndi udindo wambiri. Ngati mlongoyo abereka, ndiye posachedwa adzakhala ndi moyo watsopano. Maloto kutanthauzira amalimbikitsa kuti mutenge mwatcheru kusankha kulikonse.
Nchifukwa chiyani akulota kubereka?
Ngati mutabereka, zikutanthauza kuti posachedwa mudzayenera kukhala ndi vuto laling'ono poyamba, koma zotsatira zake zimakudabwitsani. Komabe zikhoza kukhala chizindikiro cha kuti mudzamva modzipereka. Pali zambiri zomwe zimagwirizana ndi kumene kugona, kumene kunali koyenera kubereka, kumasonyeza mwayi wosonyeza makhalidwe abwino omwe ali nawo. Ngati mutatenga mimba ndikukhala ndi mwana m'manja mwanu, posachedwa, mavuto aakulu azachuma angabwere, omwe angayambitse mavuto m'banja. Wamasulira wotanthauzira maloto, ku maloto obereka kubadwa kwa zinyama akulota, amatanthauziridwa ngati kupambana mosayembekezereka kapena zodabwitsa. Kubereka mumphaka ndi chizindikiro chakuti wina akuyesera kukuthandizani. Maso ausiku, kumene kunali koyenera kubereka mu galu, ndi chenjezo kuti mukhoza kuchita zovulaza zanu.
Nchifukwa chiyani mtsikana akulota kubereka?
Maloto oterewa amatha kufotokozera mimba yoyamba, ndipo atsikana omwe ali m'tulo akulonjeza kuti akubadwa mosavuta. M'mabuku ena a maloto usiku womwewo masomphenya ndi chenjezo la zosasangalatsa
Chotsatira cha kuvutitsidwa kapena kubereka?
Pachifukwa ichi, masomphenya a usiku akuwonetsa kuti muli ndi kukhoza kupeza chisankho choyenera ndipo mwamsanga mukukwaniritsa cholinga chanu. Makhalidwe amenewa amakuthandizani kupeza chinenero chimodzi ndi achibale ndikusintha nkhani zofunika kuntchito. Kupweteka kwapweteka - ichi ndi chenjezo loyenera kuyang'anitsitsa thanzi lanu. Maloto a nkhondoyi amasonyeza bwino momwe cholingacho chinakhalira, chomwe munagwiritsa ntchito nthawi yambiri ndi mphamvu.