Aliyense amadziwa kufunika kwa kulondola kuyambira ali mwana. Makolo amakakamizika kuika zidole m'malo awo, aphunzitsi ku sukulu akuyang'ana maonekedwe, ndipo pamene tikukula, timayamba kuyesa kulondola ndi kuyenerera kwa ena. Kukhala wodalirika ndiko kukhala wokongola, wodzudzula, wodalirika. Vomerezani, mu dziko lamakono kuti mukhale ndi makhalidwe awa ndi ofunika kwambiri. Koma kodi mungatani ngati simukusiyana ndi chilakolako choyera cha ukhondo ndi dongosolo? M'nkhani ino tidzakambirana za momwe tingakhalire aukhondo komanso abwino.
Momwe mungakhalire wodekha?
Kulondola kumaphatikizapo ukhondo, kuyang'ana ku mawonekedwe, komanso kukhalabe oyera panyumba yanu (galimoto), galimoto, malo ogwira ntchito - zonse zomwe zingatchulidwe kuti malo anu a munthu.
Monga lamulo, chizoloŵezi cha ukhondo ndi chiyero chimapangidwira mu ubwana, koma ngati chikhumbo chida ichi chikhoza kupangidwa mosamala.
Malamulo akulu a chilungamo ndi ubwino
Zojambulajambula zoyenera pamalo oyamba zimaperekanso kutsuka kwa mutu ndi zokongoletsa. Izi sizikutanthauza kuti muyenera kutsanulira nyanja zonse zapamwamba pamutu tsiku ndi tsiku kuti mupange makina, koma ndi chizoloŵezi chogona ndi mutu wouma, kapena ngakhale osasamba mutu kwa milungu iyenera kusiya.
Aliyense amene akufuna kusamala ayenera kumvetsera:
- kudzikonda, kudziyeretsa. Sungani khungu lanu, tsitsi lanu ndi pakamwa panu tsiku ndi tsiku, ngakhale mutakhala pakhomo, osakumana ndi alendo, pitani paulendo kapena tsiku. Kawiri pa tsiku, sambani ndikutsuka mano, sambani mutu ngati mukufunikira, nthawi zonse muzichita maulendo ndi manja (mu nyumba kapena payekha);
- zovala. Musamabvala zinthu zonyansa, zong'ambika kapena zamtundu, ngakhale kukhala kunyumba. Osayika zovala izi pamsewu - ngakhale mutangotaya zinyalala. Sikofunika kugula zovala zambiri - sankhani zinthu zambiri zoyenera pa nyumba, zochitika zapadera, masewera, ntchito ndi zosangalatsa (misonkhano ndi abwenzi, misonkhano, kuyenda). Ngati simukukonda kapena simukudziwa momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito zinthu - gulani zovala kuchokera kuzinthu zopanda kuwonongeka;
- nsapato. Nsapato zoyera - chimodzi mwa zizindikiro zazikulu za ukhondo. Ndi zofunika kunyamula siponji yapadera kapena nsapato ya nsapato m'thumba lanu ndikuigwiritsa ntchito pakufunika;
- zizoloŵezi. Nthawi yomweyo ikani zinthu pamalo awo - kotero simungapungitse mapiri a zinyalala, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti kuyeretsa kumatenga nthawi yochepa;
- kuyeretsa nthawi zonse. Nyumbayo idzakhala yoyera, ngati muyiyeretsa tsiku ndi tsiku, ndipo musakonzekere "kuyeretsa" kamodzi pa miyezi isanu ndi umodzi. Ndipotu, matope atsopano ndi osavuta kuchotsa kuposa stale.
Tsopano mumadziwa kukhala ovala bwino komanso okonzeka bwino, ndipo, molimbikira pang'ono, mutha kusintha moyo wanu kuti mukhale wabwino.
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