Chisangalalo chokongola ndi chimene asungwana ambiri amafuna kuti munthu akhale wokongola kapena amatha kukhala "maso" pogonana. Ndipo onse chifukwa kuseka kokongola kwa msungwana ndi njira yodzikongoletsa munthu yemwe amagwira ntchito movutikira kwambiri kuposa kuyang'ana kwamantha. Koma vuto ndikuti sizimayi zonse zomwe zimaseka bwino. Wina amaseka kwambiri, wina ndi wopusa kwambiri, wina amamveka phokoso lachisangalalo panthawi ya kuseka kapena kumangoyendayenda. Zoonadi, kuseka kwenikweni ndi kosiyana, koma atsikana akuyenera kugwira ntchito okha, kotero kuti kuseka kwawo sikunali kowona mtima, komanso kokongola. Sizongopanda kanthu kamene kawirikawiri kuseka kwa msungwana kumafaniziridwa ndi kung'ung'udza kwa mtsinje kapena kulira kwa mabelu asiliva. Kotero ziyenera kukhala. Tiyeni tiwone momwe mungaphunzire kuseka bwino, pamene mukukhala omasuka pofotokoza malingaliro anu.
Kodi mungasangalatse bwanji kuseka?
Mwina, chinthu chovuta kwambiri ndikumvetsa kukongola kwanu. Pambuyo pake, mutangoyamba kumvetsera kuseka kwanu kapena mukasankha kutsogolo pagalasi, kuwona mtima kumatayika mwamsanga, ndipo kuseka kuseka sikungakhale kopanda phindu. Choncho, mukhoza kupempha malangizo kuchokera kwa bwenzi lanu lapamtima, potsindika kuti yankho lake likhale loona mtima. Kapena pamsonkhano ndi anzanu m'nyumba yake kubisala pakompyuta kanema ndikulemba msonkhano uno, kenako muwone zojambulazo ndikuyesa kuseka kwanu.
Ngati mwawona kuti kuseka kwanu kukufunika kusintha, apa pali malangizo ena othandizani kuphunzira kuseka mokongola:
- Pezani zabwino zanu zokongola. Mukhoza kuganizira mojambula wina yemwe mumakonda. Zindikirani, mu kuseka kwa mafilimu nthawi zonse ndiwowona mtima, kotero maphunziro okha ndi ofunika.
- Yesetsani kuseka pafupi ndi kalilole. Mwina, kwa nthawi yoyamba kuseka kudzakhala kosavuta komanso kosasamala, koma ndiye kuti mutha kugwiritsa ntchito, chifukwa ndi okhawo omwe mumatha kumvetsa momwe mumaonekera, mukaseka komanso kuseka bwino.
- Musatsegule pakamwa panu mukaseka, kusonyeza mano anu kwa ena.
Ndi bwino kumwetulira, kenako nkuseka - ichi chimatchedwa kuseka kwazimayi. Ndipo ngakhale kuseka kwanu kukungowamba, simungathe kulira ngati akavalo. - Sungani mitundu yosiyanasiyana imene anthu ambiri amamva panthawi ya kuseka: kukulira, kunyezimira, ndi ena. Iwo sapereka chisangalalo chanu cha kuseka.
- Musamawombere manja anu, musagwirane manja anu pa mawondo anu, musaponyenso mutu wanu - izi ndizo amuna okhawo omwe asakwatirane nawo.
- Ndipo musaiwale kuti choyamba, choseketsa chiyenera kukhala chenichenicho, chenichenicho - ichi ndicho chigawo chofunikira kwambiri chomwe chimapereka chithumwa.
