Aliyense amadziwa kuti akazi amamvetsera zodabwitsa. Ndipo sikoyenera kupereka zonunkhira, mtengo wamaluwa kapena zinthu zina zomwe sizilipo - ngakhale, ndithudi, izi ndizophatikizapo mu ubale uliwonse. Koma ife, amai, tingapeze chimwemwe ngakhale m'zinthu zazing'ono, makamaka pamene zimaperekedwa mwangozi. Pambuyo pake, ndizochitika zomwe zikusonyeza kuti amakumbukira za ife kuti akufuna kuti zikhale zabwino, kuti zimatisamalira.
Amuna, akatswiri a zamaganizo amati, sali okondana ngati akazi, koma amakondanso. Ndipo ngati zodabwitsa izi si zachilendo, koma ndi ntchentche, ndiye pamwamba pa matamando onse. Musanayambe kugonana ndi kugonana, muyenera kuganizira mofatsa za momwe zimakhalira osangalatsa kudabwa ndi munthu wokondedwa wanu.
Ndiye, mungadabwe bwanji munthu ali pabedi?
Konzani chakudya chamadzulo
Akatswiri opatsirana pogonana amanena kuti 89 peresenti ya maukwati ogonana amayamba ndi caress yovomerezeka ndi zizoloŵezi zofanana "za izo." Simusowa kumamatira kuzinthu zosiyana siyana, pitirizani, musagwiritse ntchito zakale. Choncho, mwachitsanzo, yesetsani kuyambitsa choyamba kukhitchini. Konzani wokondedwa wanu chakudya chamakono, kukongoletsa chipinda ndi makandulo, kupanga malo apamtima. Koma mmalo mwa mchere, perekani zipatso zake ndi kukwapulidwa kirimu, zomwe simudzapereke kwa iye osati pa mbale, koma m'thupi lake. Ndikhulupirire, chifukwa cha ichi simungadabwe "momwe mungadabwe munthu ali pabedi," mkhalidwe womwewo udzakhudza inu nonse, chifukwa cha wokondedwa wanu adzakumbukira nthawi yayitali. Chonde dziwani kuti pazifukwazi ndi bwino kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala apadera omwe angathe kuwonjezera libido (nsomba, vinyo wofiira, bowa).
Kudikirira, kuyembekezera, kuyembekezera ...
Kuyembekezera mwamuna, mmalo mwa chiyanjano choyankhulana ndi abwenzi amayesera kukhala mu bizinesi yokondweretsa kwambiri. Mwachitsanzo, chisangalalo chanu. Pambuyo pake, chifukwa cha izi mutsegula malo anu atsopano ndipo ndithudi mudzabwera ndi njira zatsopano zodabwitsa
mwamuna wake ali pabedi. Monga mukudziwira, kuti mudabwezere mwamuna wogonana muyenera kukhala wokonda, muyenera kumufuna kwambiri.
Peek, wokondedwa.
Amuna ambiri amakondwera kuyang'ana mkaziyo atakhala ndi chimwemwe. Choncho, mulole iye aone izi, ndipo mobwerezabwereza alandire zowawa zogonana ndi kugonana. Azimayi ogonana amatsutsa kuti amuna 80% amalota, amafuna mkazi wawo nthawi ndi nthawi kuti abwererenso monga msungwana, namwino, wapolisi .... Koma pa nthawi yogonana simukusowa kulingalira za momwe mungadabwe munthu ali pabedi, ingopereka nokha ku chilakolako ndi malingaliro ndipo muyenera kutero.
Yesetsani kuyang'ana achikulire kunyumba
Mwamwayi, m'dziko lamakono mulibe mtendere ndi bata. Ndi chifukwa cha izi timayesa kumupeza iye kunyumba. Chifukwa chake, amai ambiri, akabwera kunyumba, amavala mwinjiro wakale kapena mapajama ndipo palibe aliyense wa iwo amene amaganiza za momwe angayang'anire ndi wokondedwayo. Magazini ambiri amalemba kuti mayi ayenera kuvala malaya okwera mtengo kwambiri. Izi, ndithudi, ziri zolondola, koma bwanji, palibe mmodzi wa iwo kulemba za chovala chachifupi cha kunyumba kapena zovala za lace zomwe msungwana aliyense wodzilemekeza amayenera kuyenda. Pambuyo pa zonse, mukuona, ndiko kuyang'ana mozama kwambiri kuposa mkanjo wakale.
Kutsutsana
Amuna onse ndi achigonjetso ndi zinyama. Choncho, zithandizani masewerawa, muzimutsutsa, dziloleni kuti mupambane. Izi ndi njira yophweka komanso yowonjezera yodabwitsa mwamuna wanu pogonana.
Ngati mulibe, pazifukwa zina, sindinasankhe bwino momwe mungadabwe mwamuna wanu ali pabedi, musataye mtima. Yambani yaying'ono - yang'anani zitsulo zokongola za bedi ndi mitundu yokongola. Izi, nawonso, zingakhudze khalidwe la kugonana. Ndipo potsiriza kumbukirani, pali zinsinsi zambiri zosiyana, kuposa momwe mungadabwe ndi munthu, kotero chitani, yesani njira yoyenera ndikuyiyika mumoyo. Ndipo koposa zonse, ngati mumaphunzira kulankhula mosapita m'mbali ndi mnzanuyo, chifukwa chake ndiye kuti mumadziwa zomwe amakonda komanso zomwe zimadabwitsa mwamuna wanu pogonana. Kumbukirani kuti kugonana koyenera sikungosunga chikondi, koma kumathandizanso kulimbitsa.