Ngati mumasankha kugonana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, mumagonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, ngati kugonana kwanu ndi kugonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Koma palinso malo apakati. Woyamba kuyankhula za izi ndi Alfred Kinsey, yemwe adapanga msinkhu kuti apite kukamaliza kugonana, malinga ndi momwe chiwerengero cha 0 chimawonetsera kugonana kosagonana, ndipo phindu la 6 limasonyeza kugonana kwa amuna okhaokha. Pogwiritsa ntchito Kinsey scale, palibe imodzi yomwe inayesedwa pofuna kudziwitsa kugonana, mungathe kupyola limodzi mwa iwo pakalipano.
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Kupititsa mayeso pogwiritsa ntchito Kinsey scale, muyenera kuyankha mafunsowa pansipa. Nambala yankho ndi nambala ya mfundo. Chiyeso ndi cha amayi:
1. Kodi akazi akhala akukukwiyitsani?
- zili bwanji?
- inde, koma mwangozi;
- kamodzi kapena kawiri;
- zithunzi zamakono kuchokera m'magazini magazini inde, zenizeni - palibe;
- Atsikana achikazi amandikonda ine kuposa anyamata;
- nthawi zambiri;
- Zikondwerereni atsikana okha.
2. Munamva bwanji za anzanu pamene mudali achinyamata?
- amzanga okha;
- bwenzi langa likuwoneka wokongola kwambiri kwa ine;
- ndi nthawi zina kumenyana;
- Kamodzi kamodzi kathandizana kakadutsa ndipo ndikufuna kubwereza;
- Ine ndinali pafupi kukondana ndi mmodzi wa abwenzi anga;
- kukondana kumvetsetsa kuti ndine wachinyamata;
- panali zachiwerewere zambiri ndi zochepa zozizwitsa.
3. Kodi muli ndi zibwenzi pakati pa abwenzi anu aakazi?
- ayi;
- pali bwenzi pa intaneti-makalata;
- Inde, koma sitinayambe nthawi yaitali;
- Ndimayankhula ndi bwenzi lamabanja;
- pali zambiri, ndipo ndimakonda kulankhula nawo;
- inde, ndipo timakumana nthawi zonse;
- ambiri, abwenzi anga onse ndi amatsenga.
4. Kodi munayamba mwapsompsona mkazi?
- palibe;
- kokha mwa malingaliro awo;
- mwinamwake akanatha, koma izo sizinali konse;
- kupsyopsyona amuna ndi akazi, izo zinali zabwino;
- Izo zinachitika, koma izo zinali ndi amuna nazonso;
- inde, ndi kawirikawiri;
- Ndimpsompsona akazi okha.
5. Mukufuna zambiri:
- chakudya chamagulu ndi mwamuna;
- kukumana ndi abwenzi ndi abwenzi;
- phwando liri ndi mutu wachiwerewere wogonana;
- phwando mu gulu la munthu wogonana, mwinamwake adzakhala mkazi;
- phwando mu gulu losakanikirana;
- Usiku wamasewera ndi abwenzi achiwerewere, ngakhale mutha kuyitana ndi atsikana okhaokha;
- gulu lazamasewera.
6. Mudakumana ndi mkazi wachigololo. Chotsatira ndi chiyani?
- mudzawona mpikisano mmenemo;
- lifanizire izo ndiwekha;
- kumupangitsa iye kuyamika;
- funsani mwamuna wanu ngati amamukonda;
- ganizirani momwe zingakhalire bwino pabedi;
- yesetsani kukondana;
- mwamsanga ndikumuuza momasuka.
7. Mukamaliza kugona ndi mwamuna, inu ...
- ndasangalala;
- osati zoipa, koma mukhoza ndi bwino;
- iwo amati kugonana ndi mkazi kungakhale kosangalatsa;
- nthawi ina iwo amaganiza kuti inu muli pabedi ndi mtsikana;
- iwo ankaganiza kuti mkazi akugwirizana nanu;
- ndi iwe munali mkazi wina;
- simukumbukira nthawi yotsiriza yomwe mudagonana ndi mwamuna.
8. Munali pabedi limodzi ndi mkazi, chiani chingachitike?
- sipangakhale funso la kukhudzana kulikonse;
- Kuphatikizana kopanda ungwiro kuli kotheka;
- wofatsa ndi wowoneka ngati wogwira mtima;
- zingakhale zatsogolera zokambirana za munthu yemwe akukuphatikizani;
- kukonda chikondi, koma kutali kwambiri simungapite;
- usiku wa kuyesa kugonana;
- chilakolako chogonana.
9. Mumamva kugonana kwambiri pa inu:
- zovala zamkati zolimba kapena zolimba;
- chinachake chomwe chikugwirizana ndi mafashoni atsopano;
- zovala zamkati zovala zovala zowonongeka;
- chinthu chomwe msungwanayo angachiyamikire;
- jeans ndi zokongoletsera ziwiri;
- yunifolomu yachiroma ndi nsapato zazikulu;
- cholimba kapena chovala cha asexual.
10. Pokumbukira zolaula, inu:
- liponyere ilo;
- yang'anani, kuyesera kumvetsa psychology yamwamuna;
- yang'anani ndi chidwi;
- Phunzirani mosamala zithunzi zonse;
- samalani zithunzi zosangalatsa za atsikana;
- Pezani ndi kuphunzira mosamala zithunzi za "mtsikana" mtsikana;
- wokondwa kwambiri ndipo iwe udzachita maliseche.
Tsopano muwerenge mfundozo ndikugawanitsa chiwerengero cha 10, chiwerengero chidzafananitsa malo anu pa kukula kwa kugonana. Ngati mutenga nambala yochepa, kuzungulira. Mwachitsanzo, chiwerengero cha 2.6 chikutanthauza kuti inu muli pafupi kuti muike nambala 3.
Chiwerengero cha kugonana
- 0 - Mkwatibwi. Palibe chomwe chimakuchititsani zambiri kuposa momwe mumakondera munthu wokongola. Ndibwino kuti muzitchula munthu wamphamvu, wamalonda ndi wopindulitsa, yemwe mungakhale chete naye, ngati khoma lamwala.
- 1 - Kawirikawiri amagonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Mumakonda amuna, mumakonda malingaliro awo, koma amafunika kuyesetsa kuti mutcheru. Simukuganiza za momwe mumayendera, koma ngati mukufuna kusankha pakati pa mnyamata ndi mtsikana, mosakayikira mudzasankha choyamba.
- 2 - ochiritsira. Simukudziona kuti ndinu mwamuna kapena mkazi, koma nthawi zina zimakhala zovuta kuchotsa maso anu kwa mkazi wokongola. Mwinamwake, mutangoyamba kukondana ndi mtsikana, koma simukufuna kubwereza.
- 3 - Amakonda kugonana. Inu mumakonda amuna ndi akazi onse, simukuwasiyanitsa pakati pawo, kusankha wosakwatirana naye.
- 4 - Ambiri mwa amuna ndi akazi. Sindinu abwenzi amodzi, ndipo musadziyese nokha, komabe mumakonda akazi ambiri kuposa amuna. Ndipo
Ngati mukuyenera kusankha pakati pa mwamuna ndi mtsikana, mungasankhe kusankha womaliza. - 5 - Ambiri ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Mukudziona kuti ndinu wachinyamata, koma mutakhala ndi chidziwitso ndi mwamuna. Zoona, simukufuna kubwereza.
- 6- Mwamtheradi kugonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Inu simunabwere ngakhale ndi lingaliro la amuna, ndipo panalibe ubale nawo iwo mu moyo wanu. Ndipo ngati izi zisanachitike, sizikanasintha kanthu mwa inu.
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