Nthawi zonse zimakhala zovuta kwa aliyense wa ife kuti agwirizane ndi zinthu zomwe poyamba tinkazikonda. Koma ngati anthu ena ali ndi zifukwa zokwanira zoti avomereze kuti amakula kuchokera ku zovala zawo zomwe amawakonda, zinthu za pakhomo zimatha ndipo ngakhale mipando ili ndi masamulo, ena ali okonzeka kuyang'ana mlengalenga omwe akuphunzirapo kukwera kapena kusunga nsapato zokalamba mu firiji yakale mu loggia !! !!
Chinthu chochititsa chidwi kwambiri ndi chakuti anthu a m'gulu loyambalo amatha kusangalala ndi zinthu zatsopano ndikusangalala ndi moyo, koma oimira gulu lachiwiri, ngakhale kuti frugality, tsoka, nthawi zambiri amafunika kupeza zofunika.
Zikuwoneka kuti ndi nthawi yoti mudziwe - chifukwa chake izi zikuchitika ndi zifukwa zisanu zofunika kwambiri zomwe muyenera kuchotsa zakale ndi zosafunikira!
1. Lamulo la kuchuluka: "Kuti mukhale watsopano, muyenera kuchotsa zakale."
Malamulo a chilengedwe chonse sanachotsedwe, ndipo amagwira ntchito, kaya mumakonda kapena ayi! Ndipo molingana ndi lamulo la kuchuluka, Mlengalenga (chabwino, kapena Mphamvu Zapamwamba) sichiwona malo pomwe mungatumizeko china chatsopano, pomwe pano nthawi zina nthawi zambiri sizinali zofunikira.
Mwambi wachi China - "Chakale sichingachoke, chatsopano sichidzabwera!"
Chilichonse chimene munganene, filosofi ya Kum'maiko siyinapangitse mwachidule komanso mwachiwawa monga Ulaya, ndipo kwa zaka mazana ambiri idapangidwa ndi nzeru za anthu. Kodi mukufuna kusangalala ndi moyo, mtendere ndi mgwirizano? Kotero, ife timatenga mwambi!
3. Malingana ndi feng shui, zinthu zakale zimaletsa kutuluka kwaufulu kwa mphamvu zopatsa moyo za Qi.
Chizoloŵezi cha Daoist chophiphiritsira kukula kwa malo (feng shui) kwa nthawi yaitali chidakhazikitsidwa yokha ngati chimodzi mwa anthu ogwira ntchito kwambiri! Malingana ndi kuphunzitsa kwake, mpaka mutalola kuloŵetsa mphamvu zofunikira za Qi, ndiko kuti, musataye zinthu zosafunika, zonyansa, zonyansa, kusintha kwabwino kwa moyo kapena kugula zinthu zatsopano ndipo simungathe! Kuwonjezera pamenepo, zinthu zowonongeka kapena zinthu zolephereka (kusindikizidwa, kusungunuka, kusweka) zimagwira ntchito ngati zofuna - zimachotsa mphamvu zanu ndikulimbikitsa mphamvu zolakwika, zomwe zimakhudza thanzi lanu ndi moyo wanu.
4. "Anchors" zamaganizo akale
Tikapeza kavalidwe kachikale ndikugwiritsanso ntchito, tumizani mafuta omwe sanagwiritsidwe ntchito kwa zaka 10, kapena mumve nyimbo, pomwe chochitika chofunika chinachitika kamodzi, ndiye kuti timakhala ndi "anchors" akale kapena, mophweka, timatengedwera nthawi yomwe timagwirizana nawo kukumbukira (osati nthawi zonse zabwino). Tsoka, ma contact oterewa amabereka osati maganizo okha, koma maganizo akale. Ndipo popatsidwa malingaliro athu, timatha kubwerera komwe tayamba ...
5. Makhalidwe abwino a osauka
Nthawi zambiri sitingathe kugawana ndi zinthu zakale, ndikukangana kuti palibe ndalama zatsopano, ndipo sitidzatha kuchita zomwezo posachedwa. Ndipo kodi mukudziwa zomwe zikuchitika panthawi ino? Timayamba kugwirizana ndi maganizo a anthu osawuka (kukhala ndi mphepo yofanana) ndikupeza umphaŵi pobwezera. Timadzikonzekeretsa kuti tipeze umphawi! Pa nthawi yomweyi, kuchotsa zinthu zowonongeka, zakale kapena zosafunika ndi maganizo "Ndikugula zambiri kapena chilengedwe chidzandithandiza kusankha bwino", mutha kulumpha msanga ndi olemera ndikuyamba "kufalitsa" mphamvu ya chitukuko!
Chinthu chirichonse, chimadzitengera yokha mphamvu yoganiza, yomwe imamuyika munthuyo. Ngati simunachigwiritse ntchito kwa zaka zoposa ziwiri, kapena ngati simukuwathandiza, "imamwalira". Ndipo chirichonse chomwe chikukuzungulira iwe chiyenera kusangalala, chikhumbo chokhala ndi kusunthira patsogolo. Ino ndi nthawi yosintha moyo kuti ukhale wabwino komanso "kuwonekera" danga la chimwemwe ndi kuchuluka!