Kawirikawiri, pambuyo pa kukangana kwakukulu, zimakhala zovuta kubwereranso chifukwa cha mantha. Pachifukwa ichi, chiwembu choyanjanitsa chidzakhala cholandiridwa bwino. Kuwonjezera pamenepo, akhoza kugwiritsidwa ntchito ngati kale kuyesa kukhazikitsa kukhudzana sikungatheke.
Chiwembu choyanjanitsa ndi mwamuna wake
Kuchita mwambowu, uyenera kukhala ndi chidutswa cha nsalu yakuda chomwe chimaikidwa pansi. Ikani chithunzi cha iye pa iye. Mu dzanja lamanja kutenga kandulo ndi mpingo wabwino ndikuwunika. Muyendetseni mozungulira chithunzichi ndikuwongolera mwambo woyanjanitsa awiriwa:
"Mulole chisangalalo cha nkhope yanu chiwoneke (dzina la cholinga), lolani kuti liyeretsenso moyo wanu (dzina la cholinga), lolani maganizo anu akuthwa kuunika. Zolinga zonse zosafunika padziko lapansi zisinthe, zoipa zoyipa, inde zotembereredwa zopusa. Kuwunikira moyo wanu chifuniro changa, ubwenzi ndikupatsani inu woona, kupitiriza. Choncho zikhale choncho. "
Chiwembucho chiyenera kuwerengedwa kasanu ndi kawiri. Ndikofunika kupanga magulu atatu ndi makandulo aliwonse pa kuwerenga. Kenaka muzimitsa kandulo, tengani chithunzi m'manja mwanu ndipo nenani mawu awa:
"Chikondi ndi kutentha zimalowa mkati mwa mtima wanu, chimwemwe chimapatsa moyo wanu, njira yanga imaunikira mtima wanu. Mundikhululukire ine mtumiki wa Mulungu (dzina la cholinga), kuchokera pansi pa mtima wanga wowala, pamaso pa maso anga, kuchokera mu mtima wanga. Moyo wake udzayamba kuimba ndi chimwemwe, mtima wake udzayamba kuyaka ndi chimwemwe. Ubwenzi udzatimanga mwamphamvu, osati lero kapena mawa, koma kwanthawizonse. Kanet m'chilimwe chakuwidwa mtima, chidzasiya kusiyanitsa kowawa, kusokoneza vuto la mphepo. Monga ngati ndife ana aang'ono, ndife osagwirizana, monga mbalame za chilimwe, monga nyanjayi za m'nyanja. Monga zanenedwa, zidzakhala choncho. Amen. "
Chithunzicho chikulumikizidwa mu zinthu zobiriwira ndikuyika pamalo omwe palibe amene angapeze. Patapita kanthawi, ubalewu udzayamba kusintha. Mukhoza kugwiritsa ntchito mwambo umenewu kuti mukhazikitse ubale ndi munthu wina.
Chiwembu choyanjanitsa ndi bwenzi kapena bwenzi
Tengani mapepala atatu aang'ono, ndipo lembani pa iwo:
- dzina lanu;
- dzina la chibwenzi;
- Mawu olakwika omwe akunena za ubale pa mphindi yapadera, mwachitsanzo, "mkwiyo", "kunyoza", ndi zina zotero.
Masamba akukonzedwa mu mzere umodzi kuti maina ali pamapeto, ndipo pakati pake pepala lokhala ndi zizindikiro. Pambuyo pake, nenani chiwembu chotere:
- "Mphekesera woipa wadutsa pakati pathu, mdima wakuda wathamanga, zoipa zakhala zikutsutsana wina ndi mzake, ubwenzi umakhala wokhudzana wina ndi mzake ndipo umatilepheretsa kumvetsetsana wina ndi mzake, sakupatsana wina ndi mnzake. Tsopano ine, ine ndikutseketsa choyipa, ine ndikuwononga chidani chimenecho, ine ndimaiwala kwanthawizonse cholakwira icho. Kachiwiri, mtendere ndi ubale zidzabwerera kwa ife, maso athu adzakondana. "
Kenaka tambani tsambali ndi mawu osayenera, ndipo pewani mphutsi mu mphepo. Lekani ndi mayina kuyika wina ndi mzake ndikuyika pamalo amodzi.
Chiwembu choyanjanitsa ndi wokondedwa wanu
Pa mwambowu, mumasowa nsalu yobiriwira, yomwe mumayala patebulo, ndikuyika chithunzi cha wokondedwa wanu. Tenga kandulo, ndi kuyendetsa
"Chimwemwe chimamveka, chikondi chimayatsa, kuwala kwa dzuwa kumakulolani kuti muwalitse, kukangana ndi zoipa zimasanduka kuwala, moyo umapatsa lumbiro lopatulika."
Nenani chiwembu maulendo 9, ndiyeno mutsogole kandulo nthawi yomweyo ndi kunena nthawi 9:
"Mumtima mwanu chikondi chimalowa, chisangalalo cha chikondi moyo wanu ukuunikira, munandikhululukira moyo wanu, ndikuyesetsani ndi mtima wanga wonse kwa ine. Lolani mtima wanu ufuule ndi chimwemwe, chikondi chimatuluka komanso chimakhala mdziko. "
Pambuyo pake, simungachite mantha kuyanjanitsa ndi wokondedwa wanu, chifukwa zonse zidzakhala bwino.