Kavalidwe ka ukwati ndi chizindikiro cha holide, chikondi ndi chimwemwe. Kumuwona iye mu munthu wa loto, amayembekeza chinachake chabwino mtsogolo. Tsopano mukhoza kutsimikizira kapena kutsutsa malingaliro anu, pogwiritsa ntchito kumasulira kumeneku. Kuti mudziwe zolondola komanso kufotokoza zambiri, m'pofunika kukumbukira zambiri za chiwembucho komanso kukhudzidwa maganizo. Olota amalimbikitsanso kufananitsa kutanthauzira ndi zochitika zomwe zimachitikadi.
Bwanji ndikulota za diresi laukwati?
Ngati munadziwona nokha mu diresi, zikutanthauza kuti posachedwa m'moyo mutha kusintha komwe kungakhudze mbali iliyonse. Masomphenya ausiku, omwe kavalidwe kanadetsedwa, ndizochitika zovuta, mwina padzakhala matenda aakulu. Kwa anthu osungulumwa, maloto oterowo akulosera kutenga nawo mbali pazochita zamasewera. Maloto omwe mudasokera kavalidwe koyera ndi chenjezo kuti simukusowa kuuza wina aliyense za mapulani anu a tsogolo. Apo ayi, pali ngozi yoti sichidzagwiritsidwa ntchito. Kwa anthu omwe ali pachibwenzi, maloto a kavalidwe a ukwati amasonyeza kuti chinachake chiyenera kusinthidwa, popeza zonse zidzatha pagawani.
Kuvala kavalidwe ka ukwati mu loto kumatanthauza kuti posachedwa zidzatheka kupita ulendo. Ngati chovalacho chikanakhala choyera, ndiye kuti posachedwa mudzatha kusangalala ndi mabwenzi apamtima. Chovala chofiira chimasonyeza chikhumbo chosintha zinthu mu kugonana. Maloto otanthauzira amalimbikitsa momasuka kulankhula ndi mnzanu, kuti chirichonse chisathe kutha. Ngakhale masomphenya a usiku ngati amenewa akhoza kulosera kuti misozi ndi zokhumudwitsa zimayamba. Vuto lachikwati la golide ndi chenjezo kuti muyenera kusamala kwambiri, chifukwa adani amakuchitira nsanje. Kavalidwe ka mtundu wodabwitsa, mwachitsanzo, wobiriwira kapena wabuluu umasonyeza kuti posachedwa chikhumbo chofunika chidzakwaniritsidwa. Ngati chovalacho chinali chakuda - ichi ndi chizindikiro cholakwika, chomwe chimatanthauza kuti maloto sakwaniritsidwa. Komabe zikhoza kukhala zovuta kulandira uthenga woipa. Chovala cha pinki chikulongosola kuti kupita patsogolo kwa ntchito kumapitirira.
Kuwona diresi lachikwati m'maloto ndikutaya kutali kumatanthauza kuti mutha kuyembekezera kukhumudwa kwa munthu wapamtima patsogolo panu.
Maloto omwe mlongoyu adawonekera mu diresi laukwati akulonjeza kutalika kwake ndi moyo wake weniweni. Kuwona chiwerengero chachikulu cha madiresi a ukwati kumatanthauza kuti posachedwa padzakhala kusintha kwina m'moyo wanu. Ngati munagula chovala - ichi ndi chizindikiro chabwino, chomwe chikutanthauza kuti mwamsanga wokondedwa adzakupatsani malamulo ovomerezeka . Kwa mkazi wokwatiwa, maloto omwe kavalidwe kaukwati anawonekera ndi chizindikiro chochita nawo chikondwerero china, mwinamwake iwo udzakhala ukwati wapamtima wapamtima. Mu bukhu lina la loto pali chidziwitso chomwe masomphenya usiku womwewo
Kodi kuyesa pa diresi laukwati mu loto kumatanthauzanji?
Kugona, kumene iwe unayesa chovala chomwecho, ndipo kwa nthawi yayitali kumasowa kutsogolo kwa galasi, ndikumangika mwayi wopeza ndalama zowonjezera. Kwa atsikana, malotowo amaimira ukwati woyambirira. Maloto, kumene ndimayenera kuyesa pa kavalidwe kaukwati, amaneneratu zosangalatsa zosangalatsa nthawi ya anthu osangalatsa.
Kodi kutanthauzira chovala chaukwati m'maloto ndi chiyani?
Masomphenya a usiku ngati amenewa angapangitse munthu kusankha kusankha njira yamoyo, yomwe idzachitike posachedwapa. Ngati mutasankha nokha zovala za anthu omwe ali kale, ndiye kuti mtsogolomu mudzathetsa mavuto ena.