Makolo athu nthawi zambiri amagwiritsa ntchito miyambo yosiyana ya kugonana pofuna kukopa anzawo, kukulitsa chilakolako , lero ndi kotheka kugwiritsa ntchito miyambo yotere, chinthu chachikulu ndikudziwa momwe mungachitire.
Miyambo yachiwerewere ya Asilavo akale
Ngati mukukhulupirira mayankho a anthu, pali zochepa, ngakhale zachilendo zokwanira, koma miyambo yogonana yothandiza, imodzi yomwe mungayesere kuchita pamene mukufuna kukopa munthu yemwe alibe nawe pachibwenzi cholimba.
Mwambo ndi kujambula, madzi ndi mchere
Kwa mwambo, muyenera kutenga chithunzi cha chinthu chokhumba, madzi a masika ndi mchere wamba. Mu nthawi yamadzulo, tsitsani madontho asanu ndi awiri (7) a madzi mu saucer, tsitsani mchere pamenepo, pafupi ndi uzitsulo, ndipo mudikire kuti uwonongeke mwangwiro, mwamsanga ukangochitika, nenani katatu kampani - "Momwe mchere ndi madzi zimagwirizanirana, Iwe (Dzina) udzandifuna ine . " Pambuyo pake, zomwe zili mu sauce ziyenera kufalitsidwa pamwamba pa chithunzicho, mwamsanga pamene pepalalo limatenga madziwo, lilowetse kumalo osakwanira kwa anthu ena ndi kusunga mpaka chikhumbocho chikwaniritsidwe ndipo chinthu chokhumba chimakhala chokondedwa kapena mbuye wanu.
Misonkho ya kugonana yokhala ndi ulusi wofiira
Palinso mwambo wokhudzana ndi kugonana, chifukwa cha khalidwe lake nkofunika kutenga ulusi wofiira, makamaka ubweya wofiira kapena silika, kapena nsalu ya mthunzi womwewo. Madzulo, dzuŵa likamatha kumbuyo, tenga ulusi, ndi kuyamba kumangirizapo mfundozo, kunena kuti: "Monga nsonga imangirizidwa, motero" Dzina "lidzamangirizidwa kwa ine. Ndinapanga zida, musamasule iwo ndipo musamawasunge. Mtumiki wa Mulungu "Dzina" adzabwera kwa ine, osachoka, adzangoganizira za ine, sangathe kuyang'ana ena . " Chiwembucho chiyenera kubwerezedwa kasanu ndi kawiri, kenaka ulusi ndi nthiti ziyenera kubisika kuti zisamayang'ane maso, sizikhoza kutayidwa kunja kapena kutayika, chifukwa chochita mwambochi chidzatha msanga.