Pofika m'badwo uno, naivety yachinyamata yatha, mnyamatayo ali wokhwima, amapanga zenizeni zenizeni pamoyo. Sizingatheke kupereka munthu wina wobadwa tsiku lina la kubadwa, ndi zofunika kupereka chinthu chotero chomwe chidzagogomezera kufunikira kwakukulu kwa kudzala.
Kodi ndiyenera kupereka mwana wanga kwa zaka 18?
Kupereka ndalama mu envelopu ndi njira yothetsera wokondwera wolowa nyumba. Zidzakhala zopanda pake kwa iye, koma sizidzakhala mphatso yosakumbukika ngakhale. Chinthu china ndikutchula ndalama zambiri kugula, zomwe ndi malire a maloto a mwana wanu. Ngati pafupifupi chaka cha 18 adapeza ndalama zogula, koma alibe ndalama zokwanira kuti apite ku sitolo, pomwepo thandizo lachuma pankhaniyi lidzakhala lothandiza kwambiri. Zidzatheka kuti nthawi yopezekapo ndi chaka chokondwerera ndikusangalalira chirichonse patebulo.
Inde, zambiri zimadalira bajeti ya makolo, ana nthawi zonse amayembekezera zodabwitsa, koma si aliyense amene angakwanitse kukwera njinga yamoto kapena galimoto. Zida zamakono zamagetsi zamakono - makompyuta, mafoni a m'manja , zipangizo zabwino zomvetsera, makina osindikizira, makina osungirako makina, makina ojambula. Mwa njira, zambiri mwazinthu zowonjezedwa zingakhale zofunika kwa wolowa nyumba kwanu kuntchito kapena kuntchito. Chifukwa chake, mphatso yotero kwa mwana wake pa tsiku la kubadwa kwa 18 kuchokera kwa mayi wachikondi sizothandiza kokha, komanso zimathandiza.
Patsikuli, ngakhale makolo osamalira, omwe amatha kugula akubwera poyamba, ayenera kuyesa kuganizira zofuna za mwana wamkulu. Ngati iye ali wotchuka kwambiri wa nyimbo, chodabwitsa kwambiri kwa amayi ake chidzakhala tikiti yopita kumsonkhano wa gulu lake lokonda. Mafilosofi, mafilimu kapena osonkhanitsa ena adzabweretsa chisangalalo pakupeza fanizo lamtengo wapatali lomwe lingathe kukweza kusonkhanitsa. Malingaliro monga souvenir chess kapena kusindikizidwa kokongola pa nkhani yomwe mumaikonda. Mu funsoli, ndi mphatso yanji yabwino kupereka mwana wanu kwazaka 18, mukhoza kusonyeza malingaliro ndi luntha. Koma ndi bwino, pamene kugula kumakhala chinthu chofunikira kwa mwanayo, kumathandizira kukhazikitsa malingaliro ake a nthawi yayitali.