Ngati inu muli mawu osamvetsetseka kwambiri padziko lonse, ndiye kuti mawu awa ndi "zikomo" ...
Tavomereze, momwe moyo wathu sungakhalire, zidzakhala zoyenera komanso zanthawi yake. Ndiye nchifukwa ninji ziri zophweka kuti ife tipeze kufotokoza kwina kwa zikwi, mmalo mongonena izo?
Ndipo tilankhule pa tsiku lapadziko lonse la mawu oti "zikomo" kuti timataya zinthu zisanu ndi ziwiri zomwe tiyenera kuperekera makilomita opanda chidziwitso chopanda pake, ndikudzipangira nokha mawu oyamikira ...
1. Munayamikiridwa
N'zovuta kukhulupirira, koma anthu ambiri sadziwa kuvomereza. Ndipo, mwinamwake, iwe ndiwe mmodzi wa iwo! Chabwino, nthawi zingati, mmalo mokondwera ndi kusangalala ndi zomwe zikuchitika, kodi mwadzidzidzi munayamba kukana chirichonse ndi kukhala odzichepetsa, mukuwopa kuti muwoneke ngati mulibe mtima? Koma munthu yemwe akufuna moona mtima kukuuzani mawu okoma, nthawi yotsatira aganize katatu - kaya ayeneranso kuchita izo kachiwiri.
Chitsanzo: "Ndinkakonda kwambiri kavalidwe kanu!"
Cholakwika: "O, ngati mutadziwa kuti ndi zaka zingati! Sinditha kukumbukira nthawi komanso kumene ndagula! "
Ndiko kulondola: "Zikomo. Ndizosangalatsa kumva! "
Koma zonse ndi zophweka - mwakutamanda ku adiresi yanu, momwemo mumadziwira bwino ndi mwayi wanu. Ndipo pakukana kapena kukana, mumakana zomwe mwakwaniritsa / zomwe mwakwaniritsa. Kodi mungayese kunena "zikomo" nthawi yotsatira?
2. Machedwa
Inde, zovutazi sizingasangalatse mbali zonse ziwiri - munali muvuto, ndipo panthawi imodzimodziyo simunalemekeze munthu amene akuyembekezera inu. Kodi mukuganiza kuti mau oyamikira sadzakhala pano, ndipo ndibwino kuzunzidwa ndikudikirira inu nkhani zokhudzana ndi kuchedwa kwa mseri? Tiyeni tiwone ...
Chitsanzo: mumapita kumisonkhano ndi kuchepetsedwa kwa mphindi 15.
Cholakwika: "Ndimakhumudwa kwambiri, koma basi sizinalipo kwa nthawi yayitali, ndipo kenaka iyi ndi ... yachisanu ndichinayi."
Ndiko kulondola: "Zikomo chifukwa chodikira" kapena "Zikomo chifukwa cha kuleza mtima kwanu."
Ndizo - ndibwino kuti musapepesedwe chifukwa chakusowa, koma kuyamikira kuyamikira!
3. Mukadzudzulidwa
Kutsutsa ndi kosiyana - zonse zothandiza ndi zomangirira, ndi zopanda nzeru komanso zopanda chilungamo, monga zotsatira za kubwezera. Koma, zotsatira zake ndi chimodzi - sitimakonda izo nthawi zonse! Kotero, pali "uthenga wabwino" - kuyankha mulimonse mmene mungayankhire ndi kuyamikira, mumalepheretsa mphamvu za mawu, kugwiritsa ntchito mfundo zomwe mwalandira kuti mukhale bwinoko, kuchotsani zoipa ndi kusunthira wopambana!
Chitsanzo: "Mwayesayesa ntchitoyi kuposa momwe mulili. Titamudalira, tinkayembekezera zotsatira zosiyana! "
Cholakwika: "Mundikhululukire, chonde. Koma apa izo zinachitika. Ndikanachita bwino, kokha ... "
Ndiko kulondola: "Zikomo, ndizosangalatsa kuti mukudziwa kuti mukuyembekezera zambiri."
4. Panthawi ya Consolation ndi Support
Ngati pali zokhumudwitsa kapena zovuta mu miyoyo ya okondedwa athu ndi abwenzi, chinthu choyamba mukufuna kuwathandiza ndi mawu olondola. Apa ndi pamene kufunafuna zinthu zabwino muyeso kumayambira, monga "Chabwino, osachepera, iwe ...", pamene palibe kwathunthu!
Chitsanzo: mlongo wanu amathetsa mwamuna wake.
Cholakwika: "Chabwino, mwina muli ndi ana abwino chotero akukula."
Moyenera: "Zikomo chifukwa chogawana. Ine ndili ndi iwe. "
Panthawi yomweyi, ngakhale mawu anu otonthoza kwambiri sungasinthe chilichonse kuti chikhale chabwino, choncho, ndikofunika kwambiri kuti muthokozere chifukwa cha chikhulupiriro ndikukhala pafupi.
5. Tchulani mawu akuti "Zikomo" nthawi zambiri
Mudzadabwa, koma pali anthu omwe akukuthokozani kwambiri! Amabweretsa keke kugwira ntchito, chifukwa chakuti athandizidwa ndi lipotili, akuyang'ana khadi la positi ndi chiyamiko, ngati wachibale wawo wapaulendo amawapatsa mphatso kapena achoka pampando wachifundo ngakhale kuti zonse zapidwa kale.
Ndipo yesetsani kunena kuti "zikomo" nthawi zambiri!