Tsoka ilo, za momwe angasamalire atsikana ndi anyamata obadwa kumene, amayi oyembekezera samaphunzitsidwa kuyambira ali mwana. Choncho, amayi apakati ayenera kuphunzira nzeru zonsezi panthawi ya mimba. Ndipo pano nthawi zambiri amalakwitsa - panthawi yokonzekera maulendo a amayi, amayesetsa kuphunzira momwe angathere pokhala ndi mimba ndi kubereka, osati zokhudza momwe angasamalire atsikana ndi anyamata obadwa kumene. Amayi amtsogolo molakwika amakhulupirira kuti chovuta kwambiri ndi kubereka mwana, koma atabadwa, zidzakhala zosavuta. Ndipo akafika kunyumba ali ndi vuto lalikulu, amadabwa kuti sakudziwa chilichonse chokhudza kusamalira ana. Choncho, tikufuna kuwathandiza, ndikulankhula za momwe tingasamalire mwana wamkazi wakhanda.
Kodi mungasambe bwanji msungwana watsopano?
Kusamba mwana wakhanda kuli kofunika pa kusintha kulikonse kwa kansalu. Nthawi zambiri makina osinthasintha amasintha. Koma nthawi yochepa ndi maola 3-4.
Mtsikanayo amatsukidwa ndi madzi abwino.
Amayi ena anamva kuti ana a mwezi woyamba (miyezi 6 yoyambirira, chaka choyamba) cha moyo ayenera kutsukidwa ndi ubweya wa thonje ndi madzi owiritsa okha. Ndipotu, izi sizowona kuti ndizofunikira. Popeza amayi ambiri amatha kudziwona okha kuti ana ang'ono angathe kutsukidwa pansi pa pompu, ngakhale mu chipinda chopereka. Koma ngati mkazi ali ndi nthawi yambiri yaulere ndipo amakhulupirira mwamphamvu kuti ana amatsuka madzi owiritsa okha, ndiye amulole kuti achite zimenezo. Chinthu chachikulu ndicho kukhazikika kwa amayi anga.
Tsopano ziyenera kunenedwa kuti asungwana oberekedwa amasambidwa kutsogolo kumbuyo. Ndipo kokha, ndipo osati ayi! Izi ndi chifukwa chakuti vaginja ali pafupi kwambiri ndi anus, ndipo mabowo angalowere mukazi pamene akusamba. Ndipo izi sizingaloledwe.
Ukhondo wa msungwana wakhanda sungapereke sopo nthawi zambiri. Komabe, izi ndi zoona kwa anyamata. Kutseka ndi sopo kungagwiritsidwe ntchito kamodzi pa tsiku ndipo kawirikawiri kumachitika nthawi ya kusamba usiku. Ndipo amagwiritsidwa ntchito pazinthu izi ndi sopo labwinobwino la mwana. Nthaŵi zina zonse zimatsuka mokwanira ndi madzi ozizira. Ndipo sikuti amayi anga ndi zinyenyeswazi zawo zatsuka modzichepetsa. Ziwalo zowonongeka za ziwalo zoberekera zimakhala zabwino kwambiri, ndipo nthawi zambiri zimakhala zovuta kuti zikhale ndi vutoli.
Kodi ndi bwino bwanji kusamba mtsikana wakhanda?
Onetsetsani atsikana obadwa kumene komanso anyamata - kamodzi patsiku. Kaŵirikaŵiri amasamba ana asanakagone kuti athe kugona molimba.
Kutentha kwa madzi pa kusamba kungakhale kulikonse, koma osati kuposa madigiri 37. Kutsika kwake kutentha kwa madzi, mwanayo amayenera kusuntha kwambiri. Ngati mutasambitsa mwanayo mu sitolo yaying'ono - ndiye kutentha kwa madzi kuyenera kukhala madigiri 36-37. Chifukwa chakuti m'mikhalidwe yotere mwana sangathe kusunthira m'madzi. Ngati mumasambira m'madzi osambira kapena phukusi lalikulu - pang'onopang'ono mukhoza kuchepetsa kutentha kwa madigiri 22-23.
Kodi tingasambe bwanji kamtsikana kakang'ono?
Kwa ena, funsoli lingayambitse chisokonezo, chifukwa n'zomveka kuti ana akusamba m'madzi. Koma pali makolo omwe amafunika kuwonjezera chirichonse pamadzi awa, kapena kusamba kumakhala kosangalatsa komanso kosayenera.
Tsopano tiyeni tiyankhule za ubwino wa zowonjezera zoterezi. Kuonjezera madzi pa nthawi yosamba (chithovu, sopo, etc.) kumathandiza kokha pa thumba la wopanga mankhwalawa. Koma kwa msungwana watsopano - ndi zoipa. Chifukwa madzi a sopo amalowa mumaliseche, ndipo amakwiyitsa nsomba zake.
N'chimodzimodzinso ndi zitsamba. Kusiyana kokha ndikokuti mucosa sichikwiya, koma youma. Kusamba mwana wamsongole kumapangitsa kuti khungu lonse liume, lomwe lauma kale, chifukwa cha mpweya wouma m'nyumba zathu.
Choncho, muyenera kusamba atsikana obadwa kumene mu madzi wamba. Kenaka kamodzi pa sabata timasambitsa mwanayo ndi sopo kapena kusamba. Koma musawonjezere madzi, koma sopo mwanayo ndi kusamba m'manja. Mu madzi a sopo, simungathe kutsuka anyamata, ngakhale atsikana ambiri!