Anthu ambiri amasungidwa mu dzenje la ngongole ndipo samadziwa momwe angatulukemo. Anthu ena ali ndi vuto losiyana, amapatsa anthu ndalama, ndipo palibe amene adzawabwezere. Pankhaniyi, pali njira imodzi yothandiza - kuwerenga chiwembu kuchokera ku ngongole. Ndikofunika kuchita mwambowu kokha ndi chidaliro chonse mu zotsatira zabwino. Chifukwa cha matsenga, zinthu zidzalengedwa momwe munthu adzathetsere mavuto onse mu nthawi yochepa.
Kukonzekera kuchotsa ngongole
Ndi bwino kuchita miyambo ndi madzi, chifukwa amakhulupirira kuti imachotsa mavuto onse, kuphatikizapo zakuthupi. Pali miyambo ingapo:
Muyenera kupita ku mtsinje kapena mtsinje ndipo, ndikuyang'ana pamadzi, nenani mawu awa:
"Nkhosa za nsomba, monga gulu la mbalame, zimakhala zosiyana, kusagwirizana. Amasambira, akuyenda, amadziwulukira kumapeto kwa dziko lapansi. Kotero ngongole yanga imabweretsa kumalo, imathamangira kuphompho. Nsomba imame, madzi amame. Mbalameyo idzabalalitsa mapiko ake ndi kuiwombera ndi mizere. Madzi ozizira, odzaza nyanja. Ngongole zanga ndi madzi, ndi nsomba, zili kutali ndi ine, kuchokera kunyanja iyi. "
Ngati palibe malo omwe ali pafupi, ndiye kuti n'zotheka kuchita mwambowu kunyumba. Kuti muchite izi, mutsegule matepi ndi madzi ozizira ndipo, popanda kuyang'ana mmwamba kuchokera mumtsinje, ndiyenera katatu kunena chiwembu chochotsa ngongole:
"Pita kumalo otsetsereka, fufuzani ku mtsinje. Pamene ikuyenda msanga komanso mofulumira, choncho ngongole zandidutsa ndikusambira. Ndine woyera, ndasambitsidwa ndi madzi, ndikubisika ngongole. "
Ndikofunika kuchita miyambo pa mwezi wowonongeka, koma nthawi ya tsiku siilibe kanthu.
Kukonzekera kubwezera ngongole
Pochita mwambo, muyenera kutenga pepala ndikulemba mndandanda wa okhomera. Ndi bwino kusonyeza dzina ndi ndalama. Pambuyo pake, muyenera kukulunga mwala waukulu ndi pepala ili, kulimanga ndi chingwe ndi kuliponya mu dziwe lachilengedwe. Yesani kutaya momwe mungathere. Pambuyo pake, nenani chiwembu chotere:
"Lolani ngongole zanga ndi miyala zigwe pansi, ndipo ndalama zidzabwera kwa ine ngati mpweya."
Miyambo yokhudzana ndi kugwiritsidwa ntchito kwa chakudya imatengedwa ngati yogwira ntchito. Tengani mbale iliyonse kapena bulu wamba ndi bwino mchere zonse kuti zisakhale zosatheka. Pa izi, nenani mawu awa:
"Monga uwu ndi mchere wa chakudya, chirichonse chidzapatsidwa mchere kwa wantchito wa Mulungu (kunena dzina la wobwereketsa). Madzi sadzagwira ntchito, maganizo a ntchito sadzaiwala. Zonse zomwe anatenga, anatenga, abwerere kuti azifulumira. "
Ndiye chakudyacho chiyenera kuponyedwa mosazindikira kwa nyumba ya wobwereketsa.