Kodi ndiyenera kuvala chiyani kwa amayi anga pamalopo?

Yankho lachilengedwe ndi losafunika pa funso lokhudza chovala pa amayi pa maphunziro, palibe, chifukwa aliyense ali ndi zokonda zosiyana, monga zochitika za chiwerengerocho. Anthu ena amasankha zovala pa phwando la maphunzirowo kuti amayi awo azikhala ndi mtundu womwewo monga chovala cha wophunzirayo, pamene ena akusewera pa zosiyana. Ngati muli pafupi ndi mawonekedwe a banja, mutha kudziveka bwino zovala zofanana ndi mwana wanu wamkazi. Koma apa ndikofunika kulingalira nambala ya maonekedwe. Choyamba, kavalidwe pa phwando la maphunziro omaliza kwa mayiyo liyenera kukhala loyenera mtundu wake. Ngati mwanayo, yemwe amaimira mtundu wa autumn , anaganiza kuvala diresi lalanje, ndiye amayi ake, omwe amaimira mtundu wa chisanu, sichigwira ntchito. Chachiwiri, amayi okhwima amaoneka ngati osakondweretsa, akutsindika zolephera zawo. Ndipo, ndithudi, kutalika kwake. Ngati mwana wachinyamata ali ndi kavalidwe kakang'ono kakang'ono kamodzi, ndiye kuti amayi akewo amawoneka osasangalatsa.

Mukufuna kuwoneka ngati alongo awiri, koma zosawerengeka sizikulola? Tengani zovala kuti zifanane ndi kalembedwe ndi mtundu, ndipo mawonekedwe angakhale osiyana.

Zovala zowonjezera

Mayi kapena mwana wamwamuna wophunzira maphunziro, Amayi akhoza kuvala diresi, suti ndiketi kapena thalauza, bafuta ndi jasi kapena bulasi ndi thalauza. Ngati chirichonse chikuwonekera bwino ndi zovala (zapamwamba zimakhala zogwirizana ndi zonse), ndiye kusankha kwa madiresi kumayenera kuchitidwa mwadala. Njira yabwino kwambiri yothetsera yowonongeka ya sing'anga kutalika kwachidule. Zovala ngati zimenezi, mumakhala omasuka pompano pa sukulu yomaliza, muholo ya msonkhano, komanso mu lesitilanti, komanso ngakhale m'chilengedwe, ngati mukukonzekera kukumana ndi mkuntho ndi wophunzira wanu wamkulu.

Inde, mukhoza kusankha kusankha zovala za mdima zomwe zimawongolera chiwerengerocho, koma nyengo yotentha imapatsa nsalu zoyera zomwe zimapanga chikondwerero.