Ngakhale agogo athu aakazi, ndi amayi ena adayamba kusonkhanitsa dowako kwa mwana wawo wamkazi kuyambira nthawi yomwe anabadwa. Tsopano zotsalira zoterezo zataya umoyo wawo - chirichonse chingagulidwe tsiku limodzi, ngati pali ndalama. Choncho, si aliyense amene amadziwa kuti dowry ndi yani, momwe mawuwa amalembedwera, komwe akugwedezeka.
Kodi dowry ndi chiyani?
Kupsyinjika mu mawu oti "dowry" kumagwera pa syllable yachiwiri. Mawu akuti "dowry" amachokera ku mawu akuti "attach, add", kotero tanthawuzo la mawu ndi lodziwika bwino komanso losafotokozedwa. Dowry, ichi ndi chimene mkazi adabweretsa ndi nyumba ya mwamuna wake, kuposa momwe anabwezera moyo wa banja lachinyamata.
Mkazi wa Dowry wa Asilavo akale
Kale a Slavs, dowry wa mkazi wake ndilofunika kwambiri kuti akwatirane. Ku Russia, kuchitidwa moyenera kwambiri panthawi ino - dowry yokha inakonzedwa ndi mtsikana mwiniyo, m'moyo wake wonse, akuyika pachifuwa chapadera. Ndipo ndinkayenera kuphika zambiri, kupatula chobvala chaukwati, wokondedwa wanga, mkwatibwiyu adakonzekera nsonga zoposa 30 zokhala ndi nsalu ndi matawulo. Komanso, mkwatibwi amayenera kukonzekera mabotolo ndikupanga matayala ngati mphatso kwa banja la mkwati ndi mkwati mwiniwake. Kusamala kwambiri kunkaperekedwa kukongoletsa pabedi laukwati. Ndipo msungwana aliyense amayenera kupanga ragi (shelum) asanalowe m'banja, zomwe anapatsa ana kuti azisangalala. Kuchokera ku ntchito ya amayi pokonzekera dowry, palibe anyamata kapena alongo aakazi omwe anamasulidwa. M'malo mwake, mayina a "netkha" ndi "nepryaha" anali amodzi mwa atsikana omwe amakhumudwa kwambiri.
Mndandanda wa dowries unali wokakamizidwa, womwe, pamene ankapititsa zinthu kunyumba kwa mwamuna, anali kusungidwa ndi amayi a mkwatibwi ndi matchmaker. Mkwati nayenso anali ndi zovuta, panali chinthu chotero monga dipo la chikwati cha mkwatibwi, mitsempha. Chifukwa cha malipiro oterewa, mwamunayo anaonetsetsa kuti mkazi wake ali wokhulupirika ngakhale atangoyamba kufa.
Timasonkhanitsa ukwati wa dowry
Zikuwoneka kuti tsopano sitinena za matayala ovekedwa ndi manja ndi zovala-chirichonse chingagulidwe okonzeka, koma zomwe aliyense ayenera kudziwa si aliyense akudziwa. Mwa njira, pafupi ndi dowry yopangidwa ndi manja, ngati ukwati ndi dziko, ndiye izi zikhoza kuchitika. Mwachitsanzo, mu dowry wa mkwatibwi Kazakhs ayenera kuphatikizapo 5 matupi ndi korpesh - zopanga mabotolo ndi mateti. Ngati ukwati ulibe chikhalidwe cha dziko, ndiye mkwatibwi akhoza kuchita ndi kugula analogues.
Kotero, nchiyani chomwe chikuphatikizidwa mu dowry yamakono ya mkwatibwi? Mndandanda wa zinthu zingakhale zazikulu kwambiri, mkwatibwi akhoza kutenga chilichonse chimene akuwona kuti ndi chofunikira. Koma ndi zabwino kukhala ndi malo a dowry zinthu zotsatirazi.
- Mzere wansalu. Zojambula za chipinda chogona ndizofunikira, koma ndi chiani? Inde, bedi laukwati. Kotero, kuphatikizapo matebulo ogona mu dowry wanu, mukhoza kulimbikitsa wokondedwa wanu.
- Zovala, zovala za usiku (pajamas), kusambira. Kukonzekera maganizo kwa mwamuna zinthu izi zimathandizanso, motero amazitenga, penyani, kuti zonse zinali zokongola komanso zachiwerewere.
- Zilupa za bafa. Mudzafunika thalasalu, kutsanulira iwo ndi manja tilu ndi ma tebulo kapena zovala za alendo.
- Zolemba za tablecloths, napkins. Zidzakhala bwino kutenga masabata awiri, ndi mitundu yosiyanasiyana, mu liwu la tablecloth, zopukutira zamkati. Kufunika kophimba tebulo kungachitike nthawi yayitali asanayambe ulendo wa banja kupita ku sitolo, choncho ndi bwino kukonzekera pasadakhale, kuti asagwire alendo pamaso.
- Tableware. Kupeza izo, musawone zokongola zokha, komanso zowoneka bwino. Nthawi zambiri, mutha kutenga 2 maselo - ntchito tsiku ndi tsiku, ndi maholide.