Aliyense amadziwa kuti ndizoipa kuti tachedwa. Ndipo kuti mukhale ndi chidwi chodzikonda nokha, muyenera kuyesetsa kupewa zinthu zoterezi.
Ngakhale, malinga ndi malamulo a ulemu, pali ndondomeko ya kuchedwa, ndipo munthu wophunzira bwino amadziwa bwino kuti mukhoza kuchedwa, koma muyenera kudziwa komwe ndi kuchuluka kwake. Mwachitsanzo, pa chakudya chamagala, mukhoza kuchedwa kwa mphindi 20, koma kadzutsa kanyumba kokha kamatenga mphindi khumi.
Mulimonsemo, kuchedwa ndi kusowa kwa nthawi kungasokoneze maganizo anu ndipo zingasokoneze mphamvu yanu. Tasonkhanitsa kuvomereza kosavuta 16 kwa anthu omwe sadziwa nthawi. Koma kodi amasangalala kuti nthawi zonse amachedwa? Tiyeni tiwone!
1. Choyamba, aliyense amadziwa kuti m'moyo muli zochitika zosayembekezereka, zomwe, mwatsoka, zimachokera kuzitsogolere ndikuwatsogolera. Ena ayenera kukumbukira izi ndikuzimvetsa.
Ndayesera.
2. Ndipo kawirikawiri, nthawi zina mumayenera kukhala mochedwa. Kuchokera pa mfundo ndi makamaka.
Landirani!
Tangoganizani, bwanji mubwere ku phwando lanu panthawi yake, ngati mutachedwa? Alendo adzasangalala!
3. Ndipo tiyeni tivomereze, palibe chinthu chonga "mofulumira kwambiri." Kawirikawiri, sichikupezeka.
Ndabwera.
4. Pakutha, kuchedwa nthawi zambiri kumapulumutsa ku zochititsa manyazi.
5. Onse othamanga amavomereza kuti kumapeto nthawi nthawi zina amapulumutsa ku msonkhano wosafunika kapena tsiku. Zoipa, ndithudi, koma zimagwira ntchito ndithu!
6. N'zovuta kuvomereza, koma kuchepetsa kuchepa kwa mphindi zisanu ndi ziwiri kungakuchititseni chinthu chosangalatsa ndi chosangalatsa. Mwachitsanzo, tawonani kanema yomwe mumaikonda, yomwe imawonetsedwa pa TV pomwe mukufunikira kutuluka.
Sindikhoza kuvomereza kusakayikira konseku
7. Ndipo, ndithudi, ndi bwino kukumbukira kuti kukhala mochedwa kwa ola kwinakwake kumakupatsani inu kuyang'ana mndandanda womwe mumawakonda kwambiri kunyumba kwanu.
8. Ndikofunika kukhala wololera kwa woyang'anira. Ndipo mwadzidzidzi, iye anangotenga nthawi yochuluka yokhala pamodzi ndikuwoneka wolemekezeka?
Ndili wamkulu, ndilibe chovala!
9. Ndikhulupirireni, onse omwe ali mochedwa nthawi zonse adzakupatsani mwayi wokambirana ndi mutu wawo wonena za khalidwe lawo loipa komanso losasunga nthawi. Koma mukudziwa, izi sizidzasintha chilichonse.
10. Pogwiritsa ntchito njirayi, alamu sikutsimikiziranso kuti mwambo wa nthawi ndi anthu osakhala ndi nthawi. Nkhani yonse ili mu ubale wapadera: iye anachoka ndipo anagona.
O, mofulumira kwambiri. Izi ndi zoipa.
11. Koma nthawi zina chikumbumtima chimadzuka mochedwa, ndipo amalingalira mozama za kukhalapo kwa moyo wawo komanso za kuopsa kosayembekezereka kosatha.
12. Ngakhale amakhulupirira kuti, tsiku lina, zonsezi zidzatha ndipo chilungamo chenicheni chidzatha.
13. Ziyenera kukumbukiridwa kuti pokambirana pa msonkhano ndi munthu wosasunga nthawi, mumayesetsa kudikira nthawi yaitali kuposa nthawi yomwe inakonzedweratu. Choncho, bwerani mtsogolo!
Kodi izi zikutanthauzanji?
14. Monga momwe anthu omalizira amavomerezera, pali aura yamatsenga yomwe imatipangitsa ife kukhulupirira kuti zomwe zalinganizidwe zidzachitika nthawi.
15. Ndipo, poyankhula momasuka, anthu oterowo ayenera kumvetsetsedwa ndi kukhululukidwa, chifukwa akhoza kukhala ndi zinthu zofunika kwambiri kusiyana ndi kugawa nthawi yawo moyenera.
Ndikhululukireni ine!