Pali anthu ambiri padziko lapansi, tonse ndife osiyana, aliyense ali ndi khalidwe lake. Chikhalidwe cha munthu chimakhudzidwa ndi zifukwa zambiri. Dzina limeneli, tsiku, mwezi ndi chaka cha kubadwa, ili ndi banja lathu komanso malo athu. Ambiri a ife timakhulupirira ma nyenyezi, tiwerengere anthu omwe ali ndi miyezi ndi zaka za kubadwa, ndikuyesera iwo ndi anzawo. Sitikutha kunena kuti mutatha kuwerenga za khalidwe la munthu wobadwa m'chaka cha Tambala, mudzamudziwa podutsa. Koma, mwinamwake, izo zidzakuthandizani inu kumvetsa mozama izi kapena zochitika za munthuyo- "tambala", kuti mumvetse bwino moyo wake. Tiyeni tiphunzire chaka cha Tambala ndi makhalidwe a omwe anabadwa chaka chino.
Zizindikiro za anthu obadwa m'chaka cha Tambala
Munthu wobadwa pansi pa chizindikiro cha Rooster ali ndi khalidwe lapadera. Iye, monga tambala mwiniwake, amakonda kukhala pakati pa chidwi, ali wonyada komanso wotsutsa. "Zokopa" ndizowongoka kwambiri, amasonyeza maganizo awo pa funsolo, popanda kuganizira za momwe interlocutor akumvera. Pambuyo pake, monga akuganiza, amalankhula zoona, koma choonadi sichikhumudwitsa.
"Mizere" imakhala yokondweretsa komanso yosangalatsa. Mtundu wa zovala, njira yolankhulirana, zonse zimawasamalira. Mapokomo ali ndi abwenzi ambiri komanso amodzi, amatha kulankhulana mosavuta. Koma, ngakhale zili choncho, mazira ndi ofunika kwambiri. Iwo sakonda kutsutsidwa, uphungu, kunyozedwa, pamene akupereka mwakachetechete malangizo kwa ena za kunja.
"Zokopa" zimatha kugawa, ngati ziripo zoposa. Amachita zimenezi mofunitsitsa, makamaka pamene izi zimachitika poyera. Kukoma Mtima? Inde, koma apa palinso chabe.
"Mizere" ndi okonza bwino kwambiri. Iwo amaganiza zochitika zawo pazing'ono kwambiri ndipo nthawizonse amachititsa bizinesi kuyambira pachiyambi mpaka kumapeto, nthawizonse pamwambamwamba. Koma tambala amakonda kukhala capricious pa ntchito ndipo, monga tanenera poyamba, kuchita zonse zomwe sitiyenera kuziwona. Atatsimikiza cholinga chake, tambala adzapita kwa iye kufikira mapeto.
"Mapako" ali ndi mphatso yayikulu yokopa. Iwo akhoza kukupangitsani kukhulupirira zomwe akufuna. Mukusintha maganizo anu pamalingaliro a interlocutor- "cock", popanda ngakhale kuzindikira. Anthu "zinyama" amapangidwa kuti apambane, zomwe adzayesa kukwaniritsa mwa njira iliyonse. Ngakhale zili choncho, "zisoti" zimanyengedwa mosavuta, chifukwa zimadalira kwambiri.
Chaka cha tambala ndi khalidwe la mwamuna ndi mkazi
"Mapako" ali olimba mtima, olimba mtima ndi olimba mtima, omwe angathe kuchita ngozi. "Mizati" yamwamuna amaonedwa kuti ndi abwino komanso olimba mtima. Amawakonda kwambiri amayi, komwe mungadziwonetsere mu ulemerero wawo wonse, amawanyengerera, amasamala, kulandira kuchokera kuchisangalalo chachikulu. Koma izi sizimayambitsa chiyanjano. Ngati "tambala" wamwamuna ali kale ndi mkazi, ndiye akhoza kusintha. Poyera, adzakhala wodekha ndi woganizira, ndipo pakhomo iye alibebenso wina woti adziwonetsere bwino, ndipo mkaziyo amatha kumbuyo.
"Mizati" yazimayi, mosiyana ndi amuna,
Pamwamba tidayang'ana makhalidwe a anthu omwe anabadwa m'chaka cha Tambala. Koma musaike chilichonse pa wokondedwa wanu ndikuganiza kuti mumadziwa kale za iye. Pambuyo pake, khalidwe ndi lovuta komanso lopambana. Anthu sakufanana. Fufuzani mayankho mwa munthu mwiniyo, pa chikhalidwe chake. Anthu amakonda kusintha, kunja komanso mkati. Mwina Tambala, atayamba kulankhula nanu, sakhala ovuta komanso okwiya, ndipo adzakhala anthu apanyumba komanso ofatsa.