Anyamata m'nyumbayi ndi osangalatsa. Koma akakhala aang'ono, amafunika kuzoloŵera chimbudzi , mwinamwake chisangalalo chidzasinthidwa ndi fungo losasangalatsa, dothi, ndipo mwachibadwa, zokhumudwitsa kwathunthu. Kuti mupirire izi mungathe, ngati tsiku loyamba, atabweretsa mwanayo, amalepheretse, musamulole kuti ayende pakhomo pang'onopang'ono. Motero, mumaletsa vuto losasangalatsa.
Nkhuku ikuwombera kunyumba - choti uchite chiyani?
Musaganize kuti nyumba yanga ndi nyumba yake, ndipo ndikufuna kuti tikhale ndi ubale wolimba. Choyamba, ndi chinyama, ndipo chiyenera kuphunzitsidwa. Ngati mwanayo ali wamng'ono, agulani khola lotsekemera - ngati mulibe nthawi yakutsatira mwanayo, zidzakuthandizani ndi vuto lalikulu, momwe mungasamalire mwana pakhomo. Khola liyenera kukhala lalikulu kotero kuti mwanayo akhoza kuyima mmenemo, pendekera ndi kugona. Nthawi iliyonse galu akamadzuka ndikudya, amafuna kusewera, ndipo ndi nthawi yomutengera panja. Pamwamba pa masewerawo, mwana wamng'ono amatha kugwa pansi, ndipo simudzazindikira momwe angapangidwire.
Ngati mwana wanu ali wamkulu, ndipo akudziwonera mobwerezabwereza nyumbayo, kuyika gawolo, ndiye akutsutsa utsogoleri. Mukakhala pafupi, sangayesetse kupuma, koma ngati mutangotembenuka, mutha kulowa mumsampha. Kalanga mwana, mumuike mu khola, sangakonde kukhala pamenepo, mwinamwake adzalira ndi kupempha ufulu. Koma ndibwino kuti mupite kukasintha makhalidwe ake. Kawirikawiri amatenga pafupifupi masabata awiri mpaka pamene mwanayo amasiya nyumba zowonongeka. Ngati mutatha kuchotsa mwanayo mumsewu, ndiye kuti sakulimbana ndi zosowa zake, mwachiwonekere, m'makonzedwe ake kuti azichita pakhomo. Bwererani kunyumba, ndipo mubwezeretseni mu khola, agalu ndi nyama zabwino kwambiri, ndipo azidikirira mpaka atatulutsidwa, ndipo inunso mukatha kumasulidwa, bwerani pakhomo lanu kunja. Pambuyo kangapo chilango ichi, mwanayo amasiya kumira, paliponse, akuwopa kuti akhale mu ukapolo.