Zaka makumi angapo zapitazo, mphete yopereka msungwana kwa anthu okhala m'mayiko a CIS inali chabe chithunzi chomwe chingawoneke m'mabuku a TV zakunja. Komabe, lingalirolo linagwera m'chikondi ndi anzathu, ndipo amuna ambiri adalitenga. Lero, mphete yokongola ya zopereka - ili pafupi mtengo wa munthu aliyense amene wasankha pa sitepe yofunika kwambiri m'moyo wake. Ndipo mtsikana aliyense akulakalaka kukhala mwini wake wa bokosi lopatulika, momwe amasungiramo mphete yokongola, yokhayo yokhayo yokha.
Mbiri ya mwambo
Kuyambira masiku a Kievan Rus kukambirana ankaonedwa ngati chofunika kwambiri kuposa ukwati. Mphete ya "kuphatikizidwa" iyenera kukhala yokongoletsedwa ndi mwala waukulu, koma chitsulocho sichinali kanthu. Pambuyo pake "kusamvana" kunasandulika kukhala mwambo wokupha. Koma mkwati adapereka mphete yothandizana nayo pamene adapereka zoperekazo, ndiko kuti, pasanakhale mwambo mu mpingo. Pokana kuika pa chala chake, mtsikanayo anakana. Patatha zaka makumi angapo, "chiwembu "cho chinasanduka ukwati, kotero mwambo wakale unatayika m'zaka mazana ambiri.
Kusankhidwa kwa mphete zopangira
Lero, mwambowu umalinso wogwira ntchito, ngakhale kuti sunatsitsimutse, koma unakongola kuchokera ku Ulaya. Kusankha kwa mphete ya zopereka kwasintha amuna kukhala mwambo wonse. Ndipo onse chifukwa ndi mphatso yoyamba yomwe mtsikanayo ayenera kuyamikira. Amayi awa amagwirizanitsa kufunika kwamtengo wapatali. Ndikofunika osati zokhazo zomwe zimaperekedwa, pokhapokha atapanga ndondomeko, komanso zomwe zili panthawi yomweyi, mawuwo alankhulidwa. Ndi chifukwa cha izi kuti kusankha miyala yodzikongoletsera kuyenera kuyankhidwa ndi udindo wonse.
Simungathe kuyankha moyenera kuti mphete yabwino ndi yopereka chithandizo ndi dzanja. Ngati mumaganizira miyambo ya Kumadzulo, ndiye kuti mtengo wake suyenera kukhala malipiro a malipiro awiri a mwezi kwa amuna. Kuphatikiza kwazitsulo zamtengo wapatali ndi miyala yamtengo wapatali ndizochikale.
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Inde, mphete zagolidi zopereka, zokongoletsedwa ndi miyala yamtengo wapatali, zimakondweretsa mtsikana aliyense, koma sikuti anthu onse angathe kupereka mphatso yamtengo wapatali. Komanso, ngati atavomereza, mkwati adzayenera kulipira ndalama. Musanayambe kugula izi ndi bwino kudzipenda nokha zinthu zomwe mungathe, ndi kugula izo, zomwe sizingapangitse pang'onopang'ono. Pamapeto pake, mtsikana yemwe amamva chisoni komanso akufuna kukhala mkwatibwi, adzayang'ana mphatsoyo, yotsatiridwa ndi zosiyana. Ngakhale mphete ya siliva yofunsira ikhoza kukhala njira yabwino kwambiri, makamaka ngati mumaganizira kuchuluka kwa zodzikongoletsera zopangidwa ndi chitsulo ichi, zomwe tsopano zikuyimiridwa mu unyolo wamalonda.
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Posankha mphete, musaiwale zomwe mtsikanayo amakonda. Ngati tsiku ndi tsiku amavala zokongoletsa za golidi, mphete yothandizira iyenera kukhala golidi. Chowonadi ndi chakuti mphete yothandizira imakhala ikuvala limodzi ndi mphete yothandizira, ndipo kuphatikiza kuyenera kugwirizana.
M'mabanja ena, pali mwambo wopititsa mphete yothandizira, yomwe agogo aakazi ndi agogo aakazi agwirabebe, kuyambira ku mibadwomibadwo. Ndondomeko izi zachilendo ndizofunikira kwambiri, chifukwa mwini wawo wam'tsogolo akhoza kutsimikiza mtima za zolinga za mwamuna yemwe amamupatsa banja lolowa m'malo.
Kodi ndi ndalama zina ziti zomwe akupereka? Achinyamata amasiku ano sali ndi miyambo yamakono, chifukwa chake samayamika zitsulo ndi miyala zomwe zimagwiritsa ntchito kupanga zokongoletsera, koma tanthauzo lomwe liri mkati mwake. Choncho, kwa banjali, phokoso lopangidwa ndi chitsulo chophweka lingatanthauze platinamu yochuluka, ngati idagula tsiku loyamba lachikondi kapena ulendo wothandizira.
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